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Breakups don’t always happen because love fades—they also occur when hearts speak different cosmic languages, written in stars and numbers, and go unheard.
Even the partners who are deeply in love can miss each other’s signals, as if they speak different emotional languages. (AI-generated image)
Valentine’s Day is a celebration of love, but it also acts as an emotional amplifier, magnifying hopes and expectations. Many hearts are left broken, with relationships often ending just before the day meant to honour love.
The truth is, relationships don’t always end because love fades. Often, breakups happen when partners fail to understand each other’s cosmic love language. Venus’s romantic expectations and the Moon’s emotional sensitivity can highlight these gaps at the worst possible moment.
Astrologer Gargi A Jaitleey explains that from the energies of Venus and the Moon to the wisdom of numerology, many breakups happen not out of lack of love but due to miscommunication and unmet emotional expectations. Partners may be deeply in love yet still struggle to connect when their “cosmic love languages” differ.
In her book ‘Awakening the Best You’, she explores each number’s unique love language and its ideal partner—”not to limit love, but to help it flourish”.
Astrology + Numerology: Two Sides Of The Same Heart
Jaitleey says, “Astrology shows how you need love (Moon) and how you express it (Venus)—your internal love code.”
“Numerology reveals why you love the way you do, how your essence prefers to give and receive love, and the life number vibration that guides your relational expression,” she adds.
When combined, astrology and numerology explain why some relationships struggle while others thrive—especially around emotionally charged moments like Valentine’s Day.
Love Language of Each Number
Understanding these cosmic love languages can help prevent miscommunication:
Number 1 — The Courageous Lover
- Love Language: Respect, independence, support
- 1s show love by empowering and protecting their partner. They feel loved when their independence and ambition are honoured.
Number 2 — The Emotional Nurturer
- Love Language: Presence, care, deep listening, emotional attunement
- 2s love through tenderness and harmony. They feel cherished when truly understood and emotionally supported.
Number 3 — The Creative Connector
- Love Language: Joy, expression, communication, laughter
- 3s express love through words, creativity, and playful conversations. They feel loved when their partner engages joyfully.
Number 4 — The Loyal Guardian
- Love Language: Stability, trust, reliability, future planning
- 4s love through devotion and consistency. They feel secure when their partner builds trust and stability.
Number 5 — The Free Spirit Lover
- Love Language: Adventure, freedom, spontaneity
- 5s express love through excitement and exploration. They feel loved when their partner shares in freedom and growth.
Number 6 — The Heart-centred Romantic
- Love Language: Nurture, commitment, beauty, partnership
- 6s are ruled by Venus and love deeply. They feel loved through loyalty, support, and creating beauty together.
Number 7 — The Soulful Seeker
- Love Language: Depth, wisdom, soulful connection
- 7s love through space and spiritual connection. They feel cherished when the bond is sacred and profound.
Number 8 — The Provider with Passion
- Love Language: Security, loyalty, achievement, shared ambition
- 8s express love through protection, achievement, and devotion. They feel loved when their effort is acknowledged.
Number 9 — The Compassionate Romantic
- Love Language: Compassion, intensity, emotional breadth
- 9s love with depth, passion, and generosity. They feel loved when emotional intensity and vulnerability are embraced.
Even deeply loving partners can miss each other’s signals—like speaking different emotional dialects. A Number 6 thrives on commitment; a Number 5 thrives on freedom. Misalignment can grow unnoticed until Valentine’s Day arrives and things get emotionally charged.
Beyond miscommunication, heartbreaks can also happen due to a weakened Venus. While the strength of planets is determined by your birth details, their impact is influenced by your karma. A balanced lifestyle allows the planet to bless you, but impure actions can diminish its positive energy, bringing challenges and lessons in love.
🔴 What Weakens Venus (Shukra)
- Dishonesty, cheating, or secret affairs
- Lack of self-respect, staying in fear-based relationships
- Excessive indulgence—alcohol, drugs, lust, pleasure without balance
- Using love for validation or approval
- Emotional manipulation—guilt-tripping, control through affection
- Disrespect towards women/feminine energy
- Chaotic or unclean living spaces
- Harsh speech, insults, public humiliation
- Physical intimacy without emotional grounding
- Suppression or shame around desire
Inner Venus Blockages:
- Self-hatred, body shame, fear of intimacy
- Feeling undeserving of love
- Comparing relationships
- Carrying past heartbreak unhealed. A wounded heart is the biggest enemy of Venus.
Venus Chakra Meditation & Mantras
Swadhisthana – Sacral Chakra Activation
1. Beej Mantra: ॐ वं (Om Vam)
- Balances water element, releases guilt & emotional heaviness
- Chant 21 or 54 times, focus below the navel, visualise soft pink/pearl-white light
2. Venus Beej Mantra: ॐ द्रां द्रीं द्रौं सः शुक्राय नमः (Om Draam Dreem Draum Sah Shukraya Namah)
- Strengthens Venus, heals dependency, attracts harmony
- Chant 108 times, preferably on Friday
3. Emotional Healing Mantra: ॐ श्रीं नमः (Om Shreem Namah)
- Heals abandonment wounds, restores emotional security
- Chant 27 times daily before sleep
🌸 Venus Affirmations
- I am worthy of love, respect, and harmony
- Love flows to me naturally and peacefully
- I give and receive love in perfect balance
- My relationships are calm, respectful, and fulfilling
- I honour myself, and others honour me
Swadhisthana Affirmations:
- I release guilt and emotional fear
- I am emotionally safe and supported
- Desire flows with balance and clarity
- I allow pleasure without shame
- My emotions move freely and peacefully
Love isn’t lost when relationships end but when it is miscommunicated. When you learn to speak your partner’s cosmic love language—the Moon’s emotional needs and your numerological signature—misunderstandings become opportunities for growth, connection, and deeper intimacy.
February 12, 2026, 08:00 IST
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